Other People's Shoes

👟👟Step Into the Unknown👟👟

In 1969, Neil Armstrong left a footprint on the Moon and uttered the iconic words,

“That’s one small step for man, one giant leap for mankind.”

His step reminds us that entering new spaces can transform travelers and the world around them.

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**What Is Other People’s Shoes?**

My podcast is a launchpad to empathy.
Each week, I explore the perspectives of individuals from all walks of life, uncovering their challenges, triumphs, and lessons.

Whether navigating self-discovery, overcoming adversity, or finding purpose, the goal is to reveal the heart of the human experience.

**At Other People’s Shoes, I invite you on a similar journey not to the Moon, but into the lives of others.**

Imagine lacing up someone else’s shoes, stepping into their world, and discovering the stories that shape their lives.

Like an astronaut exploring uncharted terrain, I seek to understand, connect, and learn from the vast expanse of human experience.

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🚀 🚀 Ready for Liftoff? 🚀 🚀
Join me as we take one small step together into someone else’s world.
It might just be the giant leap your perspective has been waiting for.

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Every journey starts with a single step even if it’s into shoes that aren’t your own.

April 2, 2025

Being Fool

April Fools’ Day: A Day of Tricks—But Don’t Be Deceived. April Fools’ Day has been around for centuries, but its origins are a little murky. Some say it started in 1582 when France switched from the Julian to the Gregorian calendar, moving the New Year from April 1st to January 1st. Those who didn’t get the memo—or refused to accept the change—were mocked and tricked, earning the title of “April fools.” Others trace it back to ancient Roman festivals where deception and pranks were part of the celebration. Either way, it’s a day built on fooling people, making them believe something that isn’t true. Yesterday, I played along. On social media, I teased that Other People’s Shoes was ending and that the time had come for a change. It was just a joke, but for a moment, some believed it. And that got me thinking—how often do we believe the lies we’re told? The truth is, deception isn’t just for one day a year. It’s happening all around us, every single day.

March 26, 2025

Another Knock At The Door

Imagine this for a moment: it’s Saturday afternoon. The week has been long, and you’ve finally carved out some time for yourself. You’re in your favorite cozy spot in the living room—maybe it’s the couch that perfectly hugs you or that recliner that’s seen better days but feels just right. You’ve got the TV on, ready to catch up on your favorite show, and for a moment, everything feels perfect. And then it happens. Alexa’s voice cuts through your peaceful bubble: “Someone is at the front door.” Annoyed, you groan, thinking, “Who could it be now?” Maybe it’s a neighbor, or worse—a salesperson. You grudgingly get up, annoyed at the interruption. You’re already rehearsing your response: “No, I’m not interested. I don’t care what you’re selling!” Well, it's my guest Nathan! Nathan & his wife Amber (Amber's past guest) walked away from in their words Jehovah's Witness, cult. Join me as I try on Nathan's Shoes.

March 19, 2025

The Choice

My choice, my body...What about the baby...I believe in life...What if the most challenging part wasn’t the choice itself—but facing who you are afterward? Abortion. A word heavy with controversy, pain, and shame. But for some, the struggle isn’t just about the choice—it’s about "who they are" in its aftermath. This week, Tonya Bailey Jones shares her journey of shame, self-doubt, and finally, self-acceptance. After decades of living behind a mask, she can now say with confidence: "I am Tonya Bailey Jones… and I love who that is". Join me as I walk in Tonya’s shoes.

March 12, 2025

Loathing

Loathing...The Duke vs. UNC rivalry is the sports equivalent of Loathing from Wicked—a relationship built on deep-seated animosity, unwavering contempt, and just a hint of begrudging respect. Much like Elphaba and Glinda’s cutting yet strangely harmonious duet, the Tar Heels and Blue Devils are forever intertwined, each defining the other through decades of battles on the hardwood. Every season, the Cameron Crazies' sneers and the Dean Dome’s roars echo the song’s theatrical vitriol—"Every little trait, however small, makes my very flesh begin to crawl!"—a sentiment any UNC fan can relate to when spotting Duke’s blue and white on the court. My guest today is Andy Bagwell. Andy Bagwell, co-author of Duke Sucks: A Completely Even-Handed, Unbiased Investigation into the Most Evil Team on Planet Earth, captured this dynamic perfectly, dissecting Duke’s infamous flopping, smug superiority, and, of course, their uncanny ability to get every foul call.

March 5, 2025

Lemons Into Tamales

Which would you rather indulge in, lemons or tamales? I feel like it's a pretty easy choice, right? Life has a way of throwing challenges at us when we least expect it. Sometimes, it feels like all we have are lemons—sour, bitter, and hard to swallow. But what if, instead of making lemonade, we made something heartier, something rich with culture, love, and perseverance—like tamales? In this episode, I sit down with Leslie Alvarez, a woman whose life is a testament to resilience, hustle, and the power of staying true to oneself. From a young age, Leslie learned the value of hard work and determination. Whether it was selling homemade oatmeal cookies to buy a bike or making tamales to support her family, she embraced the philosophy: “Where there is a will, there is always a way.” This mantra has carried her through some of life’s toughest moments. Leslie’s journey is one of incredible highs and devastating lows—financial struggles, relationship breakdowns, health crises, and career setbacks. She has faced them all, from early motherhood and divorce to job loss and a terrifying incident involving her son. Yet, through every storm, she chose to rise, using each hardship as fuel for growth and transformation. Leslie reminds us that while life may hand us lemons, we can turn them into something meaningful. Whether it’s tamales, a new career, or a fresh perspective, there is always a way forward. Join me as I walk in Leslie’s shoes.

Feb. 26, 2025

STOP! Sayin' This...

What comes to mind when you hear or read "Law of Attraction"? In this episode of Other People's Shoes, we take an X-Ray look into the life and work of Mary Beth Schrudder, a transformational life coach with expertise in the Law of Attraction, relationship coaching, addiction recovery, and spiritual transformation. Mary Beth’s journey has been anything but easy. After years in the corporate world, balancing life as a single mom while battling addictions to alcohol, food, and toxic relationships, she realized something had to change. Traditional 12-step recovery programs didn’t work for her, so she set out on a path of self-discovery, researching alternative and spiritual recovery methods that truly transformed her life. Now, as a certified coach, she helps others break free from limiting beliefs and destructive cycles by applying the correct principles of the Law of Attraction—going beyond just “positive thinking” to become the deliberate creators of their own lives truly. Join me as I try on Mary Beth's Shoes.

Feb. 19, 2025

Tomorrow

In this heartfelt episode of Other People's Shoes, I sit down with my good friend Mike Oppenheim from the podcast Coffin Talk. Mike has become a true friend in this podcasting space, and today he shares a deeply personal journey about anger, grief, and missing his son. He opens up about the invisible weight he carries—how, on the outside, you might not see the pain etched into his heart, but it's always there, shaping his days. Mike's story is a raw, emotional exploration of love, loss, and the resilience it takes to move forward. Through our conversation, we unpack the layers of his grief, understanding how it intertwines with hope and the belief in eventual reunion. As part of this episode, I wrote a poem titled Tomorrow, inspired by Mike's experience. It captures the enduring love of a father for his son, the ache of absence, and the unwavering hope for a reunion. Join me as I try on Mike's shoes.

Feb. 12, 2025

Romeo Where Are You?

Romeo, Romeo! Wherefore Art Thou? - A playful nod to Shakespeare sets the stage for a conversation about love, heartbreak, and the pursuit of healthy relationships. What comes to mind when you think of Valentine's Day? With Valentine's Day on the horizon, we're diving into the hilariously relatable world of modern dating. In this Other People’s Shoes episode, my guest Charity Sinclair joins me to share insights from her witty memoir, We're All Dating The Same Guy: Laughs, Lessons, and Love After Dating a Narcissist. Join me as I try on Charity's shoes

Feb. 5, 2025

Be A Buffalo

Buffalo instinctively run into storms, facing adversity head-on to minimize their struggle. In life, we have the same choice—we can resist challenges or embrace them for growth. You've tried affirmations and positive thinking, yet true transformation comes from integrating both our light and shadow sides. Jill Ogle, a guest on *Other People's Shoes*, shares how real change happens when we embrace all parts of ourselves. When the student is ready, the teacher appears—your time for transformation is now. Step into the storm with courage, and emerge stronger than ever.

Jan. 29, 2025

Happy Sixth Birthday

Over the past six years of hosting *Other People’s Shoes*, I’ve learned so much about persistence, community, and the power of storytelling. Reaching over 300 episodes has been a journey of growth, both personally and professionally. I’ve been inspired by the incredible people who have supported me—from family and friends to mentors and listeners who believe in this vision. This experience has reinforced the importance of steady progress, much like the tortoise in the fable. The stories shared on this podcast have touched my heart and fueled my determination to keep moving forward. Join me in celebrating this milestone, and stay tuned for an exciting surprise announcement at the end! Join me as I try on six years of podcasting.

Jan. 22, 2025

Knocking On Doors

It’s a peaceful Saturday, and you’re finally catching up on your favorite show when Alexa interrupts: “Someone is at the front door.” Annoyed, you shuffle over, expecting a salesperson—but it’s not. It’s Jehovah’s Witnesses, clutching their familiar pamphlets. You hesitate, wondering whether to answer. Today, my guest is Amber, a fifth-generation Jehovah’s Witness who made the life-changing decision to leave the faith. Her story is one of courage, heartbreak, and self-discovery as she stepped away from a belief system deeply rooted in her family’s history. Why did she leave? What was it like to break away from a faith that defined so much of her life? Amber shares her powerful journey, offering an eye-opening glimpse into life inside—and outside—the Kingdom Hall.

Jan. 15, 2025

Broken Warrior

What are your thoughts on yoga? I have heard the pants are pretty comfy. Step into Other People’s Shoes and join me as I welcome Lynda Hébert, a true embodiment of strength, balance, and determination—qualities mirrored in the Warrior Pose (Virabhadrasana). Inspired by her siblings’ struggles, Lynda transformed her passion for mind, body, and spirit wellness into a mission to help others thrive. Her book, Strong, Sane & Sassy, is a powerful guide to building sustainable habits for lasting vitality. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation where Lynda shares her journey, her wisdom, and how we can all embrace a life of transformative wellness.

Jan. 8, 2025

Camouflage

In this episode of Other People’s Shoes, we sit down with LT. COL. Jason G. Pike is a veteran with over 31 years of military service. Continuing our X-Ray season’s theme of seeing beyond the surface, Jason shares insights into the art and science of military camouflage—from blending into environments to outsmarting advanced sensors—and its role in survival and strategy. Jason also opens up about his personal journey, chronicled in his memoir, A Soldier Against All Odds. Despite being diagnosed with a learning disability and bone disease as a child, he defied expectations to achieve the rank of lieutenant colonel. His story of perseverance, determination, and resilience will inspire you to uncover your hidden strength and face challenges head-on. Join me as I try on Jason's shoes.

Jan. 1, 2025

Wait...

This season, I’m diving into the theme of X-Ray "sight beyond sight," exploring the unseen damage and resilience in our lives. It’s about uncovering what lies beneath the surface, understanding our struggles, and discovering the beauty in how God works through even the most challenging moments. As I embark on this journey, let these words resonate with you: "While I'm waiting, I will serve You. While I'm waiting, I will worship. While I'm waiting, I will not faint. I'll be running the race even while I wait." Today, I’m honored to welcome my guest, Kim Patton, author of the book Nothing Wasted: Struggling Well Through Difficult Seasons. Difficult seasons catch us off guard and make us feel like life won’t ever make sense again. On my worst days, it’s hard to believe that God will guide me through the mess. Even on my good days, when I feel I have done all the right things, I sometimes wonder: Why am I working this job? Am I making a difference? How do I know the way to go? Why can’t I seem to be content? In Nothing Wasted, Kim Patton takes us on a journey of hope and faith. She shows how we mature over time, how like fog dissipating, we begin to see how God gently leads us through each season of our lives. We may be struggling, but we are moving forward. My faith is not unseen. My moments are not wasted. All the pain that comes in these seasons does lead to a full, rich life, growing in relationship with God and with others. Kim’s story and insights are a powerful reminder that even when life is falling apart, God is still at work, weaving a story of redemption and purpose. Do you embrace difficult seasons and trust that nothing is wasted in God’s hands? Join me as I walk in Kim's shoes.

Dec. 25, 2024

Christmas Shoebox

🎄 Merry Christmas from Other People’s Shoes! 🎄 This holiday season, we have one last gift for you to unwrap. In our annual tradition, Garrett returns to quiz Neil on the last six years of the show, bringing laughter, reflection, and holiday cheer in the season finale of Homecoming—our 18th season. As we close out 2024, we invite you to reflect: Are you still waiting to take flight, write that letter, or find your way home? Here’s the good news—as long as you’re breathing, there’s still time for one more hug, one more “I’m sorry,” one more coffee date, and one more step toward forgiveness. Thank you for walking with us this year and letting us remind you that when you walk in other people’s shoes, you truly gain a new perspective. Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and we’ll see you in 2025 as we begin Season 19: X-Ray and explore “sight beyond sight.”

Dec. 18, 2024

I Want A Horse

What’s the greatest Christmas gift you’ve ever received? For many, it might have been a pony or a horse—a dream for countless children. For our guest Kim Tschirret, founder of Hope Reins in Raleigh, horses were more than a gift; they were a lifeline. Growing up in a home marked by her father’s alcoholism and a lack of unconditional love, Kim found solace and safety in her horse. While her father prioritized performance and horse shows, Kim longed for a deeper bond—a relationship that planted the seeds for Hope Reins. Today, Hope Reins is a ministry that "Inspires True Hope and Real Healing," offering a place where children and families can encounter Jesus, who meets them in their brokenness and brings restoration. For Kim, the journey of founding Hope Reins has brought her personal healing and a profound experience of God’s love. This growing community of grace is making a tangible impact across the Triangle and beyond, providing a space where love, healing, and transformation come to life. Saddle up! Join me as we try on Kim's shoes.

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Exploring what supports prevent change using real life situations!

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Deep hearted & open-minded

"Neil has a great ability to engage his guests in a way that makes it seem like he’s known them for years. Encouraging their points of view reminding us that we should open our minds to other people’s…"

Jodira | June 22, 2020

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misty phillip | May 7, 2020

Couldn’t stop listening

"Thank you for being so vulnerable for others."

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Sooooo good

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Great content!

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Interesting content

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In depth conversations

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livebeautiful | Nov. 21, 2019

Been Featured

"Recording one of the earlier episodes with Neil was a great experience and I’m glad that this has become something that allows people to consider external perspectives that would otherwise be foreign."

pickles12341 | Nov. 21, 2019

Love this guy

"I hope God continues to get the glory for the beautiful work that has been done so far in this podcast, and for the beautiful work that has been done in Neil as a by-product of this podcast."

Blueeaglerob | Nov. 21, 2019

Great Host

"I love this show!"

Targuin | Sept. 13, 2019

This podcast addict has found her latest listen

"Interesting podcast with great questions and intriguing responses. Looking forward to hearing more."

Loew22 | Feb. 14, 2019

Awesome !

"Neil’s putting forth his gift with Other Peoples Shoes, As he is able to connect with someone on a deeper level. Asking questions and allowing for that other person to open up about their life, expe…"

DefinitelyNotKelli | Feb. 14, 2019

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Shannon Millers Little Brother | Feb. 14, 2019

Great interviewer!

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PastorDreads | Oct. 18, 2020

Neil gave my past a voice

"I’ve enjoyed all the podcasts and was honored to be on one as well. I’m thankful for all you do."

Jess | Dec. 13, 2020

A fan of the Sole Man!

"Neil's gift of connection and empathy along with his skilled preparedness makes for fun, interactive interviews which yields great content."

Tom Stewart | Dec. 13, 2020

Touching

"Such a tearful warning touching guests and helps people understand there are others out there who gone through what them selfs have"

Anonymous | Dec. 13, 2020

GREAT CONTENT!

"I love how Neil welcomes so many diffrent discussions on his show! It truly gives you an in depth journey in other peoples shoes!"

J.Reames | Dec. 14, 2020

Authentic Podcast Alert!

"Neil is the real deal. He is not a copy and paste host, he really wants to step into the perspective of others. Highly recommend!!!"

Jaguarfan90 | Dec. 14, 2020

Time well spent

"When my mother told me to spend a few minutes in other people's shoes, I didn't think she was suggesting that I listen to a podcast. Actually, podcasts didn't exist back then, but if they did, liste…"

Julie Christian | Jan. 4, 2021

Let Them Eat Cake

"I have to make an effort to listen to this podcast, as I do not have access to Spotify or other traditional platforms -- but I am never sorry that I made the effort..Neil is empathetic, thoughtful, a…"

Debi Boen | Jan. 4, 2021

Other people’s shoes

"Neil is an excellent interviewer"

abbysammie | Jan. 4, 2021

Genuine

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Reina Rose | Jan. 8, 2021

Great interviews w/ intriguing people

"I love to her the stories of every day people. Neil delivers. These conversations are more like sitting around a table with Neil & his guest and just listening in on a fascinating story. Great show…"

mary r snyder | Jan. 5, 2021

The search for a role model

"Was very good and I learned some info about Evan I did not know at that particular time"

Charlene Franks | Jan. 11, 2021

Positive way

"I listened to several episodes and each impacted me in a positive way. Definitely a fan now! One of my favorite things about the host is his intuition that supports the conversation in a big way."

Warren Spiwak | Jan. 12, 2021

Genuinely interested

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Gina | Jan. 12, 2021

Authentic Conversations

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Amber | Jan. 12, 2021

Awesome

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Angel Goodwin | Jan. 13, 2021

POWERFUL episode-Prey To Confident

"Thank you for this. So much wisdom and hope for those who have suffered."

Dave Ebert | Jan. 14, 2021

"Neil's questions are genuine and lead people to share more of their stories. I appreciate how he gets to the heart of the story."

Leo | Jan. 17, 2021

Viewpoint Volley's

"Neil offers a smorgasboard of viewpoints by graciously drawing out the stories of others. Whether you agree with the perspective of others or not, Neil creates an encouraging environment, to take tim…"

Monika Hardy | Jan. 18, 2021

Podcast listener

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Marilyn Matthews | Jan. 21, 2021

Amazingly Perfect

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Cole Matthews (the real 1) | Jan. 23, 2021

OPS podcast

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Riley Matthews | Jan. 23, 2021

Uplifting

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Stu | Jan. 27, 2021

"This podcast really does help you to see other people’s perspectives. It is a blessing to listen to and I learn something about others every time. Thanks so much for sharing Neil and keep doing what …"

Christine Stearns | Jan. 28, 2021

Serving well

"I love OPSP, Neil has a genuine heart to know people from other walks of life and unite us by faith!"

Jenn | Jan. 28, 2021

Authentic and transformative

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Camy | Jan. 28, 2021

Shoe perspectives

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Paul | Jan. 28, 2021

Wholesome

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TreVon | Jan. 28, 2021

A safe place

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Leslie | Jan. 28, 2021

Thoughtful, insightful, a journey you’ll enjoy!

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Heather C | Jan. 28, 2021

Great people a little long for me.

"Good people good topics"

Nick | Jan. 28, 2021

Love

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Rachel Meyer | Jan. 28, 2021

Why listen? It’s worth it...

"Knowing Neil for years, this podcast is the perfect fit! He brings to light real circumstances of life so those who’ve experienced them can be a lighthouse to those who are going through the sea. …"

Christi | Jan. 28, 2021

Its a YES for me!!

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Vunseen | Jan. 28, 2021

Wisdom from Watson

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Sandi Rae | Jan. 28, 2021

The only show I love on podcast

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Very entertaining and thought provoking l!

"I love how each episode helps me push past my own perspectives on so many different topics!"

Natoshua Schauffler | Jan. 28, 2021

Soul and Heart

"I appreciate these conversations that help us get out of our own world... and understand the human experience in a better way!"

Danielle | Jan. 28, 2021

Thorough and relevant

"Neil has thought of every question and asked it. His podcasts are in-depth, researched well, and highly relevant to life."

Christine | Jan. 28, 2021

Shot of Light into the Mind

"There are a lot of wonderful podcasts available to listen to but when I find one that is unique and original I have to write about it. Other People's Shoes, Neil Matthews has this rare ability to hav…"

Crystal H. | Jan. 29, 2021

"I love hearing all the different stories that make up other people’s lives. Neil does a fabulous job of leading the listener on a walk in other people’s shoes."

Twyla | Jan. 29, 2021

Great podcast.

"I love the concept behind this podcast. Such great insight on various topics."

Jose Ibarra | Jan. 29, 2021

Thoughtful and entertaining

"Neil does a great job going deep with his guests and sharing their stories. I think we can all benefit from this virtual walk in other people’s shoes!"

HeatherCreek | Jan. 29, 2021

Finding Hidden Gems

"Neil doesn’t just get information from his guests. He takes us on a sympathetic journey that allows us to draw from and learn from the lives of others. And where do these gems come from? Our neigh…"

unicor Life🦄🦄🦄 | Jan. 28, 2021

Extremely Impactful

"Every person is given a unique life testimony from God, and this show allows the world to hear those stories in a way that God can use to encourage and help other people going through similar situati…"

Rob H | Feb. 1, 2021

A must listen!!

"Neil is the real deal!! An amazing interviewer, asking the hard questions and listening with grace and understanding! Thankful for the work that you’re doing and the perspective from “Other People’s …"

Past the Canvas | Jan. 30, 2021

Spend more

"We all need to spend more time inhabiting the perspectives of others, so I love the focus of this show, and I love Neil's curiosity. I especially appreciated the recent episode about ecumenicalism."

PSolas | June 5, 2021

Safe Space to share your story

"Neil provides an amazingly safe space for people to share their stories. His presence is inviting putting you at ease immediately. I had an amazing time recording with him today! I truly believe beca…"

Leticia | July 28, 2021

Fun and life changing!

"Neil is literally a blast, felt like I was talking to my best friend and at the same time he did a masterful job at allowing me to communicate my message. HIGHLY HIGHLY recommend this show!"

Adam French | Aug. 2, 2021

Moving forward

"Extremely blessed time with this podcast"

Jerry | Aug. 27, 2021

Fun and Authentic

"Neil's interview style starts with fun and lighthearted conversation, but there's purpose behind it. His conversations with guests go deeper with each question resonating with audiences giving you th…"

Jerry Dugan, Host of Beyond the Rut Podcast | Aug. 27, 2021

Are you enough

"Loved it, so easy to talk to, easy going. Time went fast. He was so easy to work with. Highly recommend working with him"

Heather Gray | Aug. 29, 2021

A breath of fresh air!

"Neil is super personable, a great host with a wonderful balance of humor and intentionality of deep questions. Truly an enjoyable podcast - take a listen and be changed and encouraged."

Ellen Rosenberger | Sept. 2, 2021

Great Podcast

"The overall spirit of this podcast is a joyful one. I so enjoy the way Neil weaves his questions in with telling stories and giving his guests the opportunity to speak comfortably in their own story.…"

Meghan Newkirk | Sept. 9, 2021

Finding the Gold

"Neil is a fabulous interviewer because he listens. He finds the gold hidden within your responses to ask the out of the ordinary question. The one he asked me, brought me to tears. The question and m…"

Karen DeArmond Gardner | Oct. 2, 2021

Digging Deep For Our Shadow Stories

"I thoroughly enjoyed being a guest on the Other People's Shoes podcast with Neil. It's was tough looking at some of the shadows that I carried for so long, but also rewarding to see where I've come …"

J Chris Templeton | Oct. 6, 2021

A joy to be a guest on this show

"I have been a guest on many shows, podcasts as well as radio. So I know that one never can be sure how an interview will go. Neil did a great job of asking questions and bringing a tough topic of dea…"

Laura L. Padgett | Oct. 15, 2021

Perspective and Understanding

"Understanding and perspective shifts are essential in our torn and divided country/world right now if we can ever find our way back to unity and healing. Neil is intentional in trying to hear through…"

Laura L. Padgett, Author | Oct. 15, 2021

Refreshing and Comfortable

"I have been a guest on 15 different podcasts and have experienced a wide variety of styles when it comes to interviewers. What I appreciated most about Neil is that he gave me time to tell my story. …"

Scott Distler | Nov. 2, 2021

Walking with Neil

"It is so great to take a walk and talk with another person about important things. Neil invited me to walk with him and talk about how to help cultivate hope in ourselves and in our kids in the shado…"

Lori Wildenberg | Nov. 10, 2021

Great Conversation!

"Talking with Neil was great. He was a well-spoken, attentive conversation partner. It was a fun time together, and I'm grateful for his work on this podcast."

Chris Martin | Jan. 20, 2022

Great experience on the podcast with Neil!

"Neil asked great questions that got me telling stories I don't normally tell in interviews. That's a good host!"

Christina Dent | Feb. 2, 2022

I enjoyed our talk

"Thank-you for allowing others to walk in my shoes. I enjoyed our time together and you made me feel very comfortable. This was my first time being on a podcast and you made my first experience wonder…"

Joanne Shedd | Feb. 17, 2022

Personable, energetic & easy to talk to!

"I loved talking with Neil. He made me feel like an old friend. He was an excellent host, with a great sense of humor and depth of heart. Neil asked really good questions that made me think and reflec…"

Charity Williams | Feb. 24, 2022

Such a fun conversation!

"As a guest on the show, the time flew by. That's the mark of a good conversation, which only happens when you have a good host. Thanks Neil!"

Keith Ferrin | March 3, 2022

My podcast - Choices

"I greatly enjoyed my time together today and appreciated the opportunity to be on your podcast. Thank you for your advice and I hope my story continues to bring hope and encouragement to others. Than…"

Lori Vober | March 16, 2022

Great experience

"As a podcast host I know how difficult it can be to make a good conversation happen, Neil's questions helped me tell my experience and it was a blast to be able to be a guest."

Jake Starkey | March 16, 2022

Casual, Relatable, Fun

"Neil is so relational and personal. Our convo was honest and responsive to what was happening in the moment. A gracious host, Neil cultivates empathy and compassion so we truly can walk in each other…"

April Diaz, Ezer + Co. Founder | March 24, 2022

"Aglet"

"Neil made the whole experience effortless. I felt like we were talking across the table while enjoying a cup of coffee. His ability to lead me through the conversation was wonderful. He represented h…"

Patti Davis | April 6, 2022

Episode #178 - Gratitude for Neil and his podcast

"This was a new experience for me, but Neil made me feel comfortable- Neil is a good guy and easy to talk with… I highly recommend being a guest and or listening to his podcast."

Daniel Connors | April 7, 2022

Loved being a guest on Other People's Shoes

"I absolutely loved being a guest on Neil's podcast. He is such a great host and so easy to talk with. He connects so well with his guests and audience and is making a difference in the lives of other…"

Stacy Leicht | April 27, 2022

Walking in Christian Mayberry shoes

"Walking in Christian Mayberry shoes. We had a wonderful experience today being on Neil Matthews Pod Cast (Other People’s Shoes! We found Neil to be very personable, very caring as well as professio…"

Kim and Christian Mayberry | April 27, 2022

Tied up in Knots?

"I may not be able to literally walk in someone else’s shoes, but hearing their stories on podcasts such as, “Other People’s Shoes,” challenges me. Thanks, Neil, for utilizing your gift of communicati…"

Esther Pannebaker | May 5, 2022

Neil is a great guy

"I really appreciate Niels thoughtful approach and the time he took to chat. I think that Neil is truly doing great things in the world and trying to help people. Thank you Neil!"

EksAyn Anderson | June 7, 2022

"I was thrilled to be the guest on this particular podcast! Neil makes me feel so comfortable and our conversation was effortless. I felt as though we talked about life while sitting at the kitchen ta…"

Patti Davis | June 18, 2022

More than Me

"In a society that is “me” focused, especially with social media, it’s refreshing to hear how my life intersects with others who may have a differing belief or way of living. Building bridges with …"

estherpannebaker.com | July 21, 2022

Entertaining and thought provoking

"Neil finds the amazing guests and then asks them the powerful questions that draw out the nuggets of gold that I ponder the rest of the day. It's both entertaining and thought-provoking."

Tom Schwab | Aug. 10, 2022

Had a great time!

"I love Neil's mission for Other People's Shoes. Thankful for the opportunity to share my story on the shoe. Neil guided the conversation well and was a great host."

Emily Louis | Aug. 16, 2022

Love love love this podcast!

"I love the authenticity, the humor and just the genuine conversation that happens on this podcast. I’ve always thought that the world is messed up because we cannot have good, quality conversations. …"

Coach Francine Ivey | Sept. 14, 2022

What a great experience!

"Neil as a true professional. His ability to make you feel welcomed on the show really stands out. It was a great time connecting with him. His passion for people's stories is top notch."

Ryan McKinney | Nov. 9, 2022

Creative and powerful

"To put ourselves in “Other people’s shoes” is a common term for gaining understanding. But I love how Neil literally talks about shoes. Seeing life from other people’s perspective is powerful. Adding…"

Danib120 | Nov. 16, 2022

Have we been friends forever?

"Neil is such a great host. Our convo was real and friendly and fun! I have been on other shows where I felt like I was just a number to the host, but Neil doesn't look at it that way. We had a good l…"

Amy Hager | Nov. 25, 2022

Real and Fun

"I listened to Neil interview other guests before I became one, and I loved his style. He is the real deal and it's always fun. The whole shoe thing - what style shoe do you wear, or the size...and th…"

Danielle Bernock | Dec. 14, 2022

FOOTPRINTS: Authentic Carolina Blue Shoes

"Magnetic, graceful, and enlightening! Neil is more than just a phenomenal authentic host, leader, and connector of people. He intentionally is creating harmony through 'Other People's Shoes' for a…"

KoachT | Dec. 13, 2022

Amazing show!

"I am so glad I came across this show! I’ve taken so many actionable and practical nuggets of advice to implement. Love tuning in!"

Walk 2 Wealth | Dec. 19, 2022

Money and Period talk... an open and honest conversation

"I had a great time chatting with Neil! I appreciated Neil's transparency in that he wasn't totally comfortable talking about menstrual cycles which allowed for us to have an open and honest conversa…"

Cathy Lemire | Jan. 24, 2023

Love this show

"I always get a fresh perspective on life when I listen to Other People's Shoes. It helps me see things from other people's view points and I understand where someone else is coming from. This show he…"

James Early | Jan. 24, 2023

Positive and Inspirational

"What a hidden treasure! So glad I discovered this podcast. Neil is an excellent interviewer who attracts a wide array of amazing guests from all over. So nice to listen to something that is positive …"

Speaking247 | Feb. 16, 2023

Thetruthoftmis

"Neil runs a good ship here . Very unique perspective love the approach and concept on his show. I recommend the podcast to anyone who wants to see someone who is Dedicated and all in when it comes to…"

Thetruthoftmis | March 1, 2023

Interesting and dedicated to kindness

"The guest are always interesting and the questions thoughtful. The theme of acceptance, kindness and love is uplifting!"

Bunny Lewis | March 10, 2023

Awesomeness

"Great content. Put yourself in other peoples shoes and get a new perspective on people’s lives. Neil your the best!"

Christine | March 10, 2023

A consistent dose of empathy

"Neil has a casual and approachable rapport with his guests - he is a vulnerable and affable host that has fun while going beyond the typical interview/personal story questions. An under the radar edu…"

Barbara | April 7, 2023

Your weekly dose of empathy

"Neil has a casual and approachable rapport with his guests - he is a vulnerable and affable host that has fun while going beyond your typical interview/personal story questions. An under the radar ed…"

ilove2eatveggies | April 7, 2023

A true thinktank of a show

"This is a podcast that actually lives up to it's stated theme. Neil asks the right questions to get inside the guest's mind and actually help them share their perspective--and it helps that he brings…"

Matt | May 1, 2023

Brave questions

"Neil stepped out his comfort zone having me on his show. He asked the questions most folks don't. And because of that, we went deep in search of the heart of the matter, and the heart of God. Thanks …"

Brian Nietzel | May 6, 2023

A Great Show

"Other People’s Shoes is a place to grow our empathy. The host, Neil Matthews is talented when it comes to asking questions that provoke guests to think deeper and bring out the theme of the topic at …"

Gloryah Rodgers | June 14, 2023

Conversation with depth

"I had a great time in this interview. Neil is funny, creates a great flow, asks insightful and provocative questions, and is attentive to both listeners and his guest. I really enjoyed that he also u…"

Megan Warren | Feb. 27, 2025

Amazing Experience!

"I had such a great time chatting with Neil. He has an easy way about him that made me feel comfortable in my own shoes. It was fun, we laughed, & we both learned something new. I would have to say my…"

Wendy Wallace | July 27, 2023

So much fun!

"I had a great time. I rarely do interviews with a male host due to my target audience and who they listen to. This podcast was so much fun to record and was a welcomed change to my routine."

Natalie H. | Aug. 3, 2023

Insightful and Interesting

"Other People's Shoes podcast comes with a unique understanding of what stepping into someone else's story for a while really means. It allows us to figure out why others' behave the way they do base…"

Paul Hollis | Aug. 11, 2023

Fantastic Experience

"Neil has such a way about interviewing that puts you at ease immediately. His questions were right on with what I had prepared for his show. He was empathetic and caring when I shared about my stru…"

Marin Canaday | Aug. 15, 2023

Amazing

"Was doing what we all should be doing: fostering a greater sense of empathy for those around us. We are so worried that we are broken, but examining the brokenness and beauty of others helps us to se…"

Alana Van Der Sluys | Aug. 15, 2023

Awesome Show!

"This podcast is amazing! Neil is a true professional and knows what he is doing. Can't wait to see where the success of this podcast goes."

JaRon Walters | Aug. 15, 2023

Excellent experience!

"I recorded a podcast with Neil the other day. It was an excellent experience.-I felt comfortable and at ease. I really appreciate the work that Neil is doing. Mark M McNear"

Mark M McNear | Aug. 21, 2023

Sharing meaningful conversations on grief

"As a podcaster, Neil asks thought provoking questions that allow his listeners to gain deeper insights. The conversation is organic, real and raw. Neils passion about walking in Other People's Shoes …"

Peggy Green | Aug. 23, 2023

Authentic and intentional

"It was a real pleasure being on the podcast. Neil is a person who truly cares for people, and it’s obvious in the way that he asks questions and authentically relates. I really appreciate how he keep…"

Karis Meier | Sept. 1, 2023

Avoid Gummy Bears while Flying!

"Neil was a terrific host who expertly guided our stimulating discussion and asked good questions. He should be on TV!"

Vincent Aiello | Oct. 19, 2023

The podcast that encourages you to keep moving forward.

"If you're on the hunt for a show that's like a warm hug for your soul, "Other People's Shoes" is a must-listen. It’s like sitting down with a good friend who's been through it all and has wisdom to s…"

Danielle Cobo | Nov. 2, 2023

Great app- danielle | Nov. 2, 2023

Real is hard to find

"It’s hard to find authentic conversation. Hearing honest stories about someone else’s life is a special gift."

Mark Delaney | Nov. 9, 2023

Passion and Unique Scenery

"I had such a fantastic experience working with Neil on the Other People’s Shoes podcast. It is clear that he is passionate about what he does, which is why he is one of the best in the business. …"

ADHD Coach Ryan Mayer | Nov. 21, 2023

Nice podcast

"i listen this podcast for first time that was good. I highly recommended this podcast."

Ellie vbg | Dec. 1, 2023

Great podcast host

"Great podcast!"

Cam F Awesome | Jan. 11, 2024

Very Welcoming and Kind

"We had a great time discussing my new book and talking about life/ Jesus. The experience was great! I felt heard and I believe we had great, easy conversation that flowed."

Noah Asher | Jan. 30, 2024

an absolutely fantatstic conversation with Neil

"Neil, is one of as kind. Many podcast hosts are in search of gaining followers, making a point, discussing a particular subject etc., which is all fine, however, Neil's objective when interviewing th…"

Don Mann (www.usfrogmann.com) | Feb. 20, 2024

Next level conversation

"I have been on podcasts and I can say that this was one of my favorites. Neil had my laughing from minute one. He is a great blend of depth and fun. I would recommend this podcast highly both for li…"

Maurice F Martin | March 4, 2024

A great drive to work podcast

"Neil covers worthwhile stories and topics that many will connect with in our crazy world!"

Dominic Teich | March 10, 2024

Great Show

"Niel is energetic, and I enjoy listening to the variety of guests he has on his show! He engages the guest and his audience!"

Lee Ann | April 16, 2024

"Neil has put together a podcast that inspires. His spirit shines through. Thanks for sharing your gift with the world. I hope we meet in person one day."

Mark Delaney | April 25, 2024

Neil is an amazing person!

"I had the honor of being interviewed by Neil, and all I can say is... wow. The conversation has stayed with me. He is a gift, and he is doing beautiful work with this podcast. His ability to connect …"

Erin Whalen | May 29, 2024

Excellent interview

"Loved Don’s challenge to us all, very inspiring to hear his story and how he lives to be better everyday. I think everyone will take real value from this walk in his shoes, don’t miss it."

Ben Kalina | May 30, 2024

Authentic Conversation, Engaging Host

"As a guest on this podcast, I felt immediately welcomed and comfortable with Neil with his warmth and kindness. I also felt like he genuinely enjoyed hearing my story and was listening and responding…"

Dr. Merry C Lin | June 6, 2024

Homecoming Interview

"Neil made the experience of being on the OPS podcast a pleasure. His humor, thought provoking questions and transparency as a host made for a great conversation and lots of laughs. Thanks so much N…"

Mark Collins | June 11, 2024

Great program

"What a great reflective program! You can learn so much from others and learn so much from talking through your own process."

Keri Cooper | June 13, 2024

Excellent experience as a Guest

"Neal is an excellent host and his heart is evident in the easy, conversational way he hosts. He is easy to converse with and doesn’t shy away from difficult conversations, but does so in a graceful a…"

Cate Purvis | July 13, 2024

Engaging and Enjoyable Host; Interesting and Encouraging Interviews

"Neil asks insightful and interesting questions that get to the heart of the guests message. Highly recommend this podcast."

Julie Sunne | July 18, 2024

Great conversation

"Thank you for having me on as a guest on Other People's Shoes. I truly enjoyed talking with Neil. The questions were in-depth & thought provoking. Neil made the entire process fun & easy. Keep sharin…"

Nancy Bruscher | July 23, 2024

I said WHAT?

"Neil got me to say things I wasn't expecting. He asked questions that dug deep into what I was trying to explain and pulled out revelations that were new to even me. The conversation flowed and it al…"

Kyle Jetsel | July 23, 2024

Great experience! Thank you for walking in my shoes!

"I want to thank you Neal for asking me to join your podcast! It is very humbling to have somebody put your shoes on and walk with you in them! It was a great experience. Your questions were perfect a…"

Aron Boesl | Sept. 2, 2024

Inspiring

"Stop scrolling and take a listen! Neil has a gift when it comes to interviews and asking the right questions. This podcast is inspiring in so many ways."

Lburns1 | Aug. 21, 2024

Neil is a great guy!

"I have listened to a LOT of podcasts, and Neil is one of the coolest/quirkiest/most unique. His superpower is that there is no one else like him on the planet, and listening to the show is a fun expe…"

Kim | Nov. 14, 2024

This podcast will make you ask questions AND laugh.

"This podcast is deep, but also keeps things light enough to leave you thinking about why you have a smile on your face. The host is a consummate professional who also brings incredible intuition to t…"

Mike Oppenheim | Dec. 10, 2024

A very personal interview

"I found my conversation with Neal to be very personal and rewarding. He was able to get to the heart of the work we do with men and women coming from prison, and more important, why we do it. He al…"

John David Graham | Dec. 11, 2024

Excellent Show

"Neil is an amazing host! He has such a fun personality and everything it takes to be an excellent podcast host. Neil is is a true professional with a wonderful platform that truly inspires and motiva…"

Mary Beth Schrudder | Dec. 17, 2024

Healthy conversations start with healthy people

"I love Neil's warmth and compassionate energy, giving a public space to exercise empathy making it accessible to EVERYONE. We had such a lovely conversation and makes me want to listen to more episo…"

Seánnie Cameras | Dec. 18, 2024

Great platform, even better host

"I thought it was amazing how thoughtful and poignant the questions were from Neil. I felt given an open platform to discuss my experiences of growing up in a cult. His way of interviewing guests was…"

Amber | Dec. 31, 2024

Warm and Fun Host

"It was such a pleasure being a guest on Neil's show. He made me comfortable right from the start and asked excellent, curious questions that sparked some great, fun conversation. Felt like I was sitt…"

Charity Sinclair | Jan. 9, 2025

Wonderful host

"Great interview - very natural with thought-provoking questions!"

Roman Fischer | Feb. 5, 2025

Insightful, Kind, Easy to talk to!!

"Neil was a breath of fresh air. He was respectful, compassionate and interested in my journey as I spoke about my own experience. He dove deeper to give the listeners an opportunity to understand thi…"

Shaun Robert Grant | Feb. 7, 2025

The Rogue Hypnotist - Mark Anthony

"I had a great time talking with Neil on the podcast. it was fun, flowed very easily and Neil was a great guy, very easy to get along with… Thanks for inviting me on, I really hope some people feel in…"

Mark Anthony - The Rogue Hypnotist | Feb. 8, 2025

For All Audiences

"Neil does a remarkable job putting the guest at ease, asking questions that everyone has but might not ask. I highly recommend listening!"

Debbie | Feb. 10, 2025

Awesome Conversation on Metaphysics and the Divine

"Neil Matthews, I completely enjoyed our conversation about truth, identity and making a better life for yourself by exiting the mind prisons society sets for us. We spoke about things that matter…"

Jordan Miller | Feb. 11, 2025

Engaging & Compelling

"Grateful for the privilege to be a guest on such an encouraging podcast!"

Fit With Deb | Feb. 10, 2025

My Experience with Neil Matthews

"The "Other People Shoes" podcast, hosted by Neil Matthews, is a breath of fresh air in the world of podcasting. As someone who has had the privilege of being a guest on the show, I can confidently sa…"

Ms Lawrence, CEO of Exposure Plus TV | Feb. 14, 2025

What a great host!

"I had such a fantastic recording with Neil. Right off the bat he made the show exciting but also comfortable for me as a guest, and the conversation flowed so easily from there - the time absolutely …"

Jill Pavlov | Feb. 24, 2025

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👟👟Step Into the Unknown👟👟

In 1969, Neil Armstrong left a footprint on the Moon and uttered the iconic words,

“That’s one small step for man, one giant leap for mankind.”

His step reminds us that entering new spaces can transform travelers and the world around them.

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What Is Other People’s Shoes?

My podcast is a launchpad to empathy. Each week, I explore the perspectives of individuals from all walks of life, uncovering their challenges, triumphs, and lessons.

Whether navigating self-discovery, overcoming adversity, or finding purpose, the goal is to reveal the heart of the human experience.

At Other People’s Shoes, I invite you on a similar journey not to the Moon, but into the lives of others.

Imagine lacing up someone else’s shoes, stepping into their world, and discovering the stories that shape their lives.

Like an astronaut exploring uncharted terrain, I seek to understand, connect, and learn from the vast expanse of human experience.

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🚀 🚀 Ready for Liftoff? 🚀 🚀Join me as we take one small step together into someone else’s world. It might just be the giant leap your perspective has been waiting for.

Every journey starts with a single step even if it’s into shoes that aren’t your own.

SHOES THAT TRULY CAPTIVATED ME

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About the Host

Neil Matthews

Samaritan’s Feet believes that a new pair of shoes can provide a tangible foundation of hope and the opportunity for a better life, prompt children to focus in school and families not to worry, and protect feet to decrease the possibility of getting a foot-borne disease.

**What Is Other People’s Shoes?**

My podcast is a launchpad to empathy.
Each week, I explore the perspectives of individuals from all walks of life, uncovering their challenges, triumphs, and lessons.

**At Other People’s Shoes, I invite you on a similar journey not to the Moon, but into the lives of others.**

🚀 🚀 Ready for Liftoff? 🚀 🚀
Join me as we take one small step together into someone else’s world.
It might just be the giant leap your perspective has been waiting for.